Life's perspective?
today I'm walked around with a slight headache and sore throat and coldness..
haha..
stayed at home to lounge around and spent my time at my attempts to organise my schedule (next week super busy!) and then talking to Subaru about places to go in Singapore because... MY KUMAMOTO EXCHANGE FRIEND (Exchange was last time in TP!) MORIGUCHI-SAN IS COMING TO SINGAPORE DURING CHRISTMAS! yay!! =B shall host them..=D so happy it's like so unbelieveable. they're touching down on Christmas.. got the flight details already but don't know if they settled the accomodation. I recommended some homestays and hotel/bed&breakfast locations to them..and did some research ytd despite feeling horrible cos I was so excited!! MWA HA HA~
but I don't quite get why they want to come to Singapore to visit again (because there's really not much places to go), I'm happy they're spending it here lah but to me, Singapore is honestly, quite boring?! oh wells, maybe they're attracted by the cheap shopping and nice lights ? haha ! they should come when the IR is ready!! =@
anyway, earlier today in the papers I read bout Rui En's lifestory. and also heard+remembered abit from my friend bout his' life. After reading bout Rui En's story especially, her quote of "Never be a victim of your own consequence/family background" (something like that lah) is quite inspiring.. She was secluse about her private life but finally am upfront with it now. originally, she was leading a rather self-destructive life due to her parents' broken marriage and she makes choices that were not really for herself but because of her insecurity towards how others see her.. but she now knows what is important now and I'm so happy for her! On reading her story, it adds on to my perspective of life too, and I guess its also a good encouragement one can use for others..?
Like it makes sense. Everybody's imperfect. Everyone's family is different. If you're born into a complicated family background you can either self-destruct or be compelled to achieve greater heights so you won't walk in the route your parents did or whatever.. I understood her quote and I think she's brave in becoming upfront so she can be an inspiration to others. her quote/lesson of "never be a victim of yourself" may ring true to many people today because I think many people are a "victims of themselves"..
I also believe for those people who went through a lot in their life, they'll learn much more than those who lead a less complicated life.. because IF they manage to come out of their problems, they'll be MUCH stronger, sensible and all, they'll have with them enriching lessons of life that may further compel them to their understanding of self, of life and other people.. it's comforting if you think that way, but having said that, I also don't deny from the perspective of the person how hard things can be, how unfair this disparity in a person's life from others may seem (e.g. like the poor and the rich..) it'd be hard to think rationally in their circumstance because of all the emotions and hurt..=/ oh well.. I think after I die, if I go to heaven, I'd ask God about why there's the disparity. haha..
ok enough bout that. today, I also saw the American President Bush being attacked on the News (looks quite comical, haha..) and I also read about this touching real life story about child adoption! It's on a forum and it surfaced when I was searching bout adopting dogs from SPCA for a friend..
Such a meaningful story! =D
Must read!
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/adopting_little_russian_104412.html
haha..
stayed at home to lounge around and spent my time at my attempts to organise my schedule (next week super busy!) and then talking to Subaru about places to go in Singapore because... MY KUMAMOTO EXCHANGE FRIEND (Exchange was last time in TP!) MORIGUCHI-SAN IS COMING TO SINGAPORE DURING CHRISTMAS! yay!! =B shall host them..=D so happy it's like so unbelieveable. they're touching down on Christmas.. got the flight details already but don't know if they settled the accomodation. I recommended some homestays and hotel/bed&breakfast locations to them..and did some research ytd despite feeling horrible cos I was so excited!! MWA HA HA~
but I don't quite get why they want to come to Singapore to visit again (because there's really not much places to go), I'm happy they're spending it here lah but to me, Singapore is honestly, quite boring?! oh wells, maybe they're attracted by the cheap shopping and nice lights ? haha ! they should come when the IR is ready!! =@
anyway, earlier today in the papers I read bout Rui En's lifestory. and also heard+remembered abit from my friend bout his' life. After reading bout Rui En's story especially, her quote of "Never be a victim of your own consequence/family background" (something like that lah) is quite inspiring.. She was secluse about her private life but finally am upfront with it now. originally, she was leading a rather self-destructive life due to her parents' broken marriage and she makes choices that were not really for herself but because of her insecurity towards how others see her.. but she now knows what is important now and I'm so happy for her! On reading her story, it adds on to my perspective of life too, and I guess its also a good encouragement one can use for others..?
Like it makes sense. Everybody's imperfect. Everyone's family is different. If you're born into a complicated family background you can either self-destruct or be compelled to achieve greater heights so you won't walk in the route your parents did or whatever.. I understood her quote and I think she's brave in becoming upfront so she can be an inspiration to others. her quote/lesson of "never be a victim of yourself" may ring true to many people today because I think many people are a "victims of themselves"..
I also believe for those people who went through a lot in their life, they'll learn much more than those who lead a less complicated life.. because IF they manage to come out of their problems, they'll be MUCH stronger, sensible and all, they'll have with them enriching lessons of life that may further compel them to their understanding of self, of life and other people.. it's comforting if you think that way, but having said that, I also don't deny from the perspective of the person how hard things can be, how unfair this disparity in a person's life from others may seem (e.g. like the poor and the rich..) it'd be hard to think rationally in their circumstance because of all the emotions and hurt..=/ oh well.. I think after I die, if I go to heaven, I'd ask God about why there's the disparity. haha..
ok enough bout that. today, I also saw the American President Bush being attacked on the News (looks quite comical, haha..) and I also read about this touching real life story about child adoption! It's on a forum and it surfaced when I was searching bout adopting dogs from SPCA for a friend..
Such a meaningful story! =D
Must read!
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/adopting_little_russian_104412.html
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